Valli Durham

Valli Durham, aged 74, passed away peacefully at her home on September 22, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. After a courageous seven-year battle with cancer, she was reunited with her beloved husband, Stephen Wilby Durham.

Born on March 29, 1951, in Salt Lake City to John Patrick and Virginia Gibbons, Valli filled her childhood with joy, creating cherished memories during family trips to Island Park and their beach house in Carmel-by-the-Sea. Throughout her marriage, summers were especially cherished at their lake cabin in Bear Lake, where countless memories were made with her children and grandchildren.

A dedicated lifelong resident of the Salt Lake area, Valli graduated from Rowland Hall and married her childhood sweetheart, Stephen. She earned a degree in education from the University of Utah and devoted her career to teaching kindergarten at Oakwood Elementary School, positively impacting the lives of countless children. Her passion for reading and storytelling was a gift she shared with her children and grandchildren, creating treasured moments together through literature.

Valli's optimistic spirit throughout her battle with cancer inspired all who knew her. She encouraged others to find joy and laughter in life’s challenges. A passionate traveler, she explored the world but cherished her happiest moments surrounded by family, often reminding them that being together was her ultimate “happy place.”

Known for her generosity, kindness, and vibrant spirit, Valli volunteered for Navajo Santa after her retirement, dedicating her time to serving others until her health became a challenge.

Valli is survived by her brothers, Mike Gibbons (wife Jennifer), and Bill Gibbons (wife Barbara), sister Vicky Hoagland (husband John), and her two sons, Nathan Durham (wife Erika and daughter Lilli) and Eric Durham (wife Katrina, and their sons Lucas and Miles). Her love and warmth will be deeply missed by her extended family, including nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

As we remember Valli’s life, let us celebrate her compassion, joy, and the profound love she shared with all.

An open house will be held in her honor on November 2nd from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. The event will take place at The Cottonwood Country Club, located at 1780 East Lakewood Drive.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to a charity of your choice in Valli’s honor.